yea thats what i'm saying but i just want to make her happy and i see thats shes trying so hard to get over him and i think shes gettin there and ppl say that shes happier with me and idk i cant control how i feel....but than sometimes i feel as if even tho I dont wanna let go that i should suck it up and get over it cuz i'm a senior in highschool

If you look at it from this perspective, when you tell her that you need to decide who you need to be with, it would kind of put a force decision on her, and most likly, at least what i think, would force her to get over the guy. Me, personally, would drop her ass faster than a hot potato, but if you think you see somthing in this girl, go with what your instinct tells you bro.

I don't think that getting over someone is something you can make happen on your own, but you can create an environment where making the letting go is easier. Boxing up photos and gifts and putting them away (or giving/throwing them away) is a step in that direction. This is especially true of the ring. The fact she still wears it seems to indicate she's either not willing or not able to let go. (What would she do if you started wearing a ring or something similar from another girl?).
What can you do? If you're not exclusive already, keep it that way - it will allow you to explore other options. If you are exclusive (which, even if you said you were, the whole point/problem here is that she really isn't), start distancing yourself, even to the point of suggesting seeing other people and say why you're suggesting it. It's not going to be easy, but it will avoid a lot of the games and trouble later on.

If that's really true, then you probably should rethink your current relationship. Cleaning the slate of all relationships for a while might be an idea so you can focus on yourself and what you want.

Before anyone else posts...can we not resurrect threads that are over 5 months old.