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Movie theatre anxiety?

I am 15 and have anxiety. I asked this girl i have known for a while on a date and she wants to see new moon this weekend. I can manage in a movie theatre with my parents, but with the girl I like its seriously scary because I dont want to freak out because there is going to be alot of people there and I dont want her to think I am weird. Dont say I should try and go on another date please what should I do??
I have no clue. tell the girl what's going on, and you will stay calmer through the movie. just breathe, you will be okay.
Maybe you could go during the week and it wouldn't be as crowded, or wait until the movie has been out for a little while. I think you would do better if the theater was not packed. And sit near the edge or aisle. That way if you needed to get up for a few minutes it would be easy to walk outside and take a breather.
Try to relax as hard as it is, and do something fun before it so that you're not thinking about it all day. i am a 14 year old girl so trust me the girl will not care if you are nervous or anything because she will be nervous too and won't care. just have fun, don't worry after a few minutes you'll relax

Enjoy the movie!
When you take a young filly out on a morning run,it's good to give her her head and just let her set her own pace.Ok,girls are not fillies but the rule applies.Always let the girl dictate how things will go.It takes all the pressure off you.Don't worry.She'll  pull your arm around her if  she wants it.If she's cold give her your jacket even if you freeze.It's all about consideration and making her feel special.Because she is.Don't be scared.Girls are people,too,but the rules change a little when we're around them.I know.It's funny.You can be around the kindest,softest,gentlest,most demure young lady and still be scared to death of her.Weird,ain't it??You'll be OK.Just go with the flow and she'll let you know.Regards,BK
you are 15 so listen to me because i know what you have. her being 15 means that she doesnt probably understand anxiety that much.

tell her you have panic attacks.  tell her that it is not that you are scared but that active situations trigger your brain to act a certain way and you cant control it.

she is a girl. girls for the most part wont judge you if you tell them you have panic attacks. if you tell them this and then they see it, they wont be like "wow what a dork!" like your idiot buddies probably would. come on admit it most of your buddies are retarded. most of mine still are stupid and i am 24. buddies are not the best source of intelligence. not when they fart and then make a big funny deal about it. not the brightest you know? lol

and during the moment just say "im having a little anxiety attack but it will be fine once i breathe a little bit"

trust me she wont think less of you.

just tell her you have a thing in your brain that makes you have anxiety and panic and you cant really control it that much.

girls are better at looking at the person beneath.
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